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The Measure of A Man – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

January 18, 2009 by omitunde  
Filed under education


The Education of a phenomenal man -  Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.  Martin Luther King Jr., Strength to Love, 1963

I was nine years old before the Civil Rights became real to me after seeing pictures of people knocked down to the ground with fire hoses and dogs dragging them and nipping at their legs.  I felt sad to see only Black people treated that way for standing up equal rights and equal treatment.

By the time Dr. King was nine years old he had already been skipped ahead in school because he started the first grade at age four when his sister was entering the same grade at age six.  Throughout his education, Dr. King was exposed to the influences of Christian theology and how it impacted the struggles of oppressed people.

At Morehouse, Crozer, and Boston University, he studied the teachings on nonviolent protest of Indian leader Mohandas Gandhi.

King also read and heard the sermons of white Protestant ministers who preached against American racism. Benjamin E. Mays, president of Morehouse and a leader in the national community became vitally  important in shaping Dr. King’s theological development.

In looking at the first 23 years of his life before he married Corretta Scott at age 24, ask yourself what have you been doing with your education.

•    Age One
o    When he was only a year old his father received his undergraduate degree in Theology from Morehouse College in 1930
•    Age 2
o    His maternal grandfather AD Williams dies of a heart attack
•    Age 3
o    Started nursery school at age 3 in 1932 (rare in that time period)
•    Age 4
o    1933 King, Jr., enters the first grade at Yonge Street Elementary School with his six-year-old sister, Christine.
•    Age 5
o    1934 King, Jr., reveals to his first-grade teacher that he is only five years old and is expelled from school.
•    Age 6
o    1935 King, Jr., reenters the first grade at Yonge Street Elementary School and after half a year advances to the second grade
o    1936 King, Jr., is baptized after Ebenezer’s two-week annual revival, led by guest evangelist Rev. H. H. Coleman of Macedonia Baptist Church in Detroit.
o    1936 King, Jr., enters the third grade at Atlanta’s David T. Howard Colored Elementary School
•    Age 7
o    1937 King, Jr., enters the fourth grade at Howard Elementary School.
•    Age 8
o    1938 King, Jr., enters the fifth grade at Howard Elementary School.
•   Age 9
o    1939 King, Jr., enters the sixth grade at Howard Elementary School.
o    1939 King, Jr., and members of Ebenezer’s choir sing at the Junior League gala ball celebrating the premiere of Gone with the Wind at Loew’s Grand Theater in Atlanta
•    Age 10
o    1940 King, Jr., graduates from Howard Elementary School.
o    1940 King, Jr., enters the seventh grade at Atlanta University Laboratory School.
•    Age 11
o    1941 The King family moves from 501 Auburn Avenue to 193 Boulevard.
•    Age 13
o    1942  King, Jr., becomes the youngest assistant manager of a newspaper delivery station for the Atlanta Journal.
o    1942 January After half a year in the eighth grade at Atlanta University Laboratory School, King, Jr., enrolls in the ninth grade.
o    1942 September King, Jr., enters the tenth grade at Booker T. Washington High School.
•    Age 14
o    1943  September King, Jr., enters the eleventh grade at Booker T. Washington High School.
•    Age 15
o    1944 April King, Jr., wins the right to represent Booker T. Washington High School in the state competition of the Elks’ oratorical contest.
o    1944  April – King travels to Dublin, Georgia, to deliver his oration “The Negro and the Constitution.” Although he does not win the contest, his speech is later printed in the Booker T. Washington High School yearbook, The Cornellian.
o    1944 Summer King, Jr., participates in a summer work program for Morehouse students, picking tobacco on a farm in Simsbury, Connecticut. At the end of the summer, King, Jr., is admitted to Morehouse College as an early admissions student.
o    1944 September King begins his freshman year at Morehouse, taking Freshman Mathematics, Church History, Composition and Reading, History of Civilization, and Introduction to Biology.
•    Age 16
o    1945 September King, Jr., accompanies King, Sr., as he leads the Atlanta delegation to the National Baptist Convention in Detroit
o    1945 King, Jr., begins his sophomore year at Morehouse, taking Elementary French, Introduction to General Literature, Introduction to Sociology, Matter and Energy, General Psychology, and Educational Psychology.
•    Age 17
o    1946 As a sophomore at Morehouse, King, Jr., wins second prize in the John L. Webb Oratorical Contest.
o    1946 Summer King, Jr., quits his job as a laborer at the Atlanta Railway Express Company when a white foreman calls him “nigger.”
o    1946 September King, Jr., begins his junior year at Morehouse; his courses include Shakespeare, the Bible, American Literature, Intermediate French, Contemporary Social Trends, Social Anthropology, and a seminar in Sociology.
•    Age 18
o    1947 Jan/Feb King, Jr.’s article, “The Purpose of Education” is published in the Morehouse student paper, the Maroon Tiger.
o    1947 March King, Jr., is elected chair of the membership committee of the Atlanta NAACP Youth Council in a meeting on the Morehouse College campus.
o    1947 Summer King, Jr., works on a tobacco farm in Simsbury, Connecticut.
o    1947 September King, Jr., begins his senior year at Morehouse College, enrolling in Social Psychology, Classics in English, Social Institutions, Social Legislation, Urban Sociology, Intercultural Relations, Introduction to Philosophy, Principles and Methods of Statistics, and a seminar in Sociology.
o    Fall 1947 King, Jr., preaches a trial sermon at Ebenezer.
•    Age 19
o    1948 King, Jr., wins second prize in the John L. Webb Oratorical Contest.
o    1948 February King, Jr., offers the prayer at graveside memorial services for former Morehouse College presidents John Hope and Samuel H. Archer.
o    1948 February King, Jr., is ordained and appointed assistant pastor at Ebenezer.
o    1948 King, Jr., accepts Crozer’s offer of admission.
o    1948 April King, Jr., preaches “Life is What You Make It” in the morning and “The Meaning of Christian Living” in the evening at Liberty Baptist Church in Atlanta.
o    June 1948 King, Jr., receives his bachelor of arts degree in sociology from Morehouse and Christine King receives her bachelor of arts degree in economics from Spelman College. Age 19
o    Summer 1948 King, Jr., serves as assistant pastor of Ebenezer.
o    July 1948 King, Jr., is guest speaker at a meeting of the Negro Cultural League at Ebenezer.
o    August 1948 King, Jr., delivers sermon at Ebenezer’s evening service on “External Versus Internal Religion.”
o    August 1948 King, Jr., preaches at Ebenezer’s morning service on “God’s Kingdom First.”
o    September 1948 During the first term of his first year at Crozer Theological Seminary, King takes Public Speaking, Preaching Ministry of the Church, Introduction to the Old Testament, Orientation for Juniors, Choir, and Church Music.
•    Age 20
o    February 1949 King, Jr., is enrolled in Christian Mysticism, Practice Preaching, and Public Speaking.
•   Age 21
o    September 1950 King, Jr., enters his senior year at Crozer, taking courses on American Christianity–Colonial Period, Minister’s Use of the Radio, and Religious Development of Personality. He serves as student pastor at the First Baptist Church in Queens, New York.
•   Age 22
o    September 1951 King, Jr., audits courses on the Problems of Esthetics and Kant at the University of Pennsylvania.
o    February 1951 King, Jr., enrolls in Philosophy of Religion and Theological Integration at Crozer.
o    December Nov 1950/ Feb 1951  King, Jr., is accepted as a student in the Post-Graduate School of the Faculty of Divinity at Edinburgh University, Scotland.
o    January 1951 King, Jr., is accepted as a student in the Post-Graduate School of the Faculty of Divinity at Edinburgh University, Scotland.
o    Feb 1951 King, Jr., takes the Graduate Record Examination.
o    Feb – May 1951 King, Jr., is enrolled in Advanced Philosophy of Religion, Christian Social Philosophy, and Christianity and Society.
o    May 1951 King, Jr., graduates from Crozer with a bachelor of divinity degree, delivering the valedictory address at commencement. He receives both the Pearl Plafker Memorial Award as the graduating student who, “in the judgment of the faculty, has been the outstanding member of his class during his course in the seminary,” and the J. Lewis Crozer Fellowship, which provides $1,200 toward graduate school.

In the next decade Dr. King meets Correct Scott and gets married at the age of 24, then become the pastor of Dexter Avenue Baptist Church in Montgomery, Alabama. marchonwashington_marchers_lincolnmemorial

The Civil Rights Movement took hold and American was swept up in protest against segreation, lynchings, bombings, the assassinations of Medgar Evers, President John F. Kennedy, Malcom X , more riots and violence leading up to his death.

The time line continues with from age 24 up to today when we celebrate the installation of the man we call Barack Obama to continue the legacy. We shall struggle no more.“Give Us The Ballot.”

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The Whole World is Watching – President Barack Obama

January 15, 2009 by omitunde  
Filed under Kitchen Table Wisdom


time-magazineThe whole world will be watching when the first African American takes “The Oath Of Office” and formally steps  into his appointment as the President of the United States of America.

“A New Birth of Freedom” is the theme for the ceremony commemorating the 200th anniversary of Abraham Lincoln’s birth.

Prefacing a new era marked by the visible “rite of passage” as Barack Obama will stand with his family before God and the world on the steps where Africans, African-Americans, both free and slave, are noted by historians to be among those who helped build landmarks like the U.S. Capitol building and the White House.

This story will be told for the next decade through welled up eyes with tears spilling over into hearts numb with a renewed sense of self worth. The words will penetrate the space that has been mostly vacant due to prejudice, separation, apathy, and racism, of darker days when politicians seemed anything but interested in the problems of a working class family and profited from the labor of those in bondage.

For me this is so much more than just pride, the sentimentality I feel gives way an opening, a breathing space that was not present before releasing knowledge of the anger and pain history. The residual effects of Africans being kidnapped and taken from there homeland lingers inside of me.

Now I choose  to let it rest and take the time to be proud, reveling in this moment. It feels like a rebirth. We are all being reborn and awakened to our new self.

Finally there is vindication for injustices done to the greatness that Africans and the descendants of Africans were never allowed to show; finally there is compensation for undeserved treatment received in the name of colonial capitalism.  There is one that will be our leader and rally us to believe in change and have hope for a better world.

What does this change come to teach us?

The Oath of Office is approximately 40 words that we will hear differently than we have ever heard it before:

“I do solemnly swear (or affirm) that I will faithfully execute the office of President of the United States, and will to the best of my ability, preserve, protect and defend the Constitution of the United States.”

Many people are in a state of high excitement, astounded and so much more attentive to the fearless inspirations of President Lincoln, President Kennedy and Martin Luther King, Jr. as the similarity in the words of President Elect Barack Obama summon the collective stories of our past.

President Abraham Lincoln’s words, carried power across time and around the world because of his platform presence, his poise, personality, good looks and strong voice as stated by Ted Sorenson, who was the main speech writer for President John F. Kennedy

The words of President John F. Kennedy resonate more today than ever before that this nation is founded by many men of different backgrounds and it is their duty to promote and respect the rights of all to be free in light of the rising tide of discontent that threatens the public safety law alone cannot make men see right.

Kennedy also stated that a great change is at hand, and our task, our obligation, is to make that revolution, that change, peaceful and constructive for all.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. during the Civil Rights Movement has been known to preach such words as; “let us continue to hope, work, and pray that in the future we will live to see a warless world, a better distribution of wealth, and a brotherhood that transcends race or color. This is the gospel that I will preach to the world.”

Change is the responsibility of everyone that believes him or herself to be an American, a friend or supporter of America. It is the destiny of this country to be transformed from its current condition and reclaim a status of respect and honor among neighboring nations.

American no longer needs to be defined as the egotistical Super Power posturing like a an adolescent with a chip on their shoulder drawing a line in the sand, selling wolf tickets and then retreating to draw yet another line.

The grassroots movement has been strengthened by a groundswell of believers newly inspired by words they have been waiting to hear. The ways of government have left us bitter and hopeless, wondering when the next crisis would come.

We can now live in renewed faith because its not just minorities marching for equal rights, its not just women, its not just the Gay and Lesbian community demanding the respect they deserve, its not just anti-war protestors, this time its everyone, and the whole world watching.

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Operations & Marketing Plan to Increase the Value of Your Business

January 15, 2009 by omitunde  
Filed under business


The OperateItRight Company Manual is a comprehensive easy to follow workbook to document the planning of your operations, marketing and entire business. It also serves as your disaster plan, succession plan and dissolution manual all rolled into one.

This workbook is so dear to my heart because it has saved my business and countless other businesses. The OperateItRight Company Manual gives you peace of mind and ensures you’ll have every aspect of your business documented and in one easy to find place.

The OperateItRight Company Manual lays everything out…

  • So that you’ll have all your business information in one place at your fingertips
  • Ensuring that all your procedures are handled the same way every time
  • Allowing you to focus on your business because you can see what can be delegated and what should be improved so that employees and contractors will know their role and responsibilities
  • So you can quickly update and revise it as your business grows and changes
  • Including your identity, target market, marketing practices, steps to take in a disaster, what your survivors should do in the case of your death and the steps you should take to dissolve your company.
  • Increasing the value of your company if you decide to sell The OperateItRight Company Manual gives you a ready-to-use template to cover every aspect of your business. Get your copy now!

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    Living During A Recession

    January 7, 2009 by omitunde  
    Filed under art of living


    Having trouble making ends meet?

    Can’t pay for your prescriptions, buy food, put gas in the car or keep the utilities on any longer. It’s just too hard and money will only stretch so far!

    Have more month left than money?

    Many people struggle with this issue. One of the best ways to save money and truly stretch your dollars all the way to the end of the month is to live a more frugal lifestyle.

    Yes, frugality is key. Being frugal with one’s life does not mean that you will live a life, doing without and hoarded away. Frugal living is actually very freeing. Frugal living frees up your finances to work harder and smarter for you o that you in turn do not have to work so hard to actually bring in an income.

    In a time where 40% of Americans live beyond their means, meaning they spend more monthly than they make, finding ways to save and learning to be more frugal sounds like a winning idea.

    There are a few key concepts that one must adopt in order to begin living a more frugal lifestyle.

    Smarter money management. A person must begin to not only spend less money, but also manage the money they have in a smarter way. This can take some time and discipline but will truly pay off in the end.

    Spending less. A person must also learn how to spend less than they make. This can be a difficult process for some who have spent more than their paycheck for a long time, however if they adopt some frugal living ideas they can be doing this in no time.

    Saving. With the money that they save through not spending as much, they can begin to put away money into savings; another key to frugal living that will help a person to get ahead.

    Continuing the process. Continuing to spend more and save less is key.

    Adopting some key concepts to frugal living can truly change the way you live your life, and the way that your money works for you. Become different from the norm and begin a smarter, more frugal lifestyle today.

    About the Author:

    Cara Mirabella is a WAHM with one toddler from New Jersey. She owns and manages TheHouseholdHelper.com – a site dedicated to saving your time, money and sanity when managing your household. She has written several articles, reports and e-books including Frugal Living: How To Stretch Your Hard Earned Dollar.

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